New series!

                      New series  starting tomorrow! 

             

                      

        

                              Image by: http://voguetheatremanistee.org/coming-soon

New "did you know?" series starts Friday March 15, 2019. In this series I will find 3 to 5 new and interesting things to share with you. EVERY WEEK!  I will post this series every Friday at 7:00pm. 

My question for you...  What are some interesting, and lesser known things that you know?
let me know in the comments section.
Thanks to my readers for taking time out of your busy day to read my blog.

As always. Be well, Be happy, Enjoy life!
                                                             -Kandi's world

Disclaimer! 

I do not own rights to all of the images shown above. links are provided. thank you

the music in my soul.

                               The music in my soul

                                     Image by:https://quotesgram.com/music-is-my-soul-quotes/ 

How are you tonight? I am doing well. today was a good, and peaceful day. Granted all I did today was play with my daughter, clean up the house, and wash the dishes. (I did get a new vacuum today. very happy about that). Our old vacuum developed a hole in the tubbing. I had tried fixing it with tape, but with no success we finally bought a new one. Other than that I browsed the web here and there. Nothing too crazy. I am currently listening to the yt music app (YouTube) on my phone. Everyone else is in bed. 

I started to think about how much listening to all of my favorite music helps me calm down. I also began to think about how music helps me focus. (Is that just me?) I personally enjoy a variety of music. What I listen to depends on my mood, and state of mind. What kind of music do you like? What's your favorite song? I have a lot of favorite songs! 

One of my favorite songs to listen to when I want to calm down from the day is Shortline- by ryx. https://youtu.be/g6H91esCMjw

youtube.com

Another song I like to listen to for calming down is called Salt- by ryx. https://youtu.be/G47vW_1Gte0

I hope you enjoy the songs. Let me know in the comments! Enjoy the rest of your night.

 As always Be well, Be happy, Enjoy life -Kandis world

Disclaimer: I do not own any rights to the images, and songs listed above. 

the first few days of blogging

                   The first few days of blogging. 

 hello, I wanted to put my thoughts down. So bear with me...

although it is only a couple of days into this new journey. I wanted to keep track of what I think and how I feel. (Since this is a personal blog I see no reason it would be a problem).I wanted to start blogging for many reasons.  I (like most others) had to overcome the fear I was feeling. (Fear of failure.) I had to realize I could never really fail at writing my experiences, opinions, and general thoughts. I decided to go ahead, and make my blog.

 So here we are a couple of days in.  I am feeling even better about my decision. This is the perfect outlet. I mean think about it! I can write anything as long as it isn't taking away  from, or hurting anyone else. As long as I write what's in my heart and on my mind. I will succeed!

                                             photo by:   https://ichemeblog.org/tag/success/

Before I decided to actually make the blog I had to figure out how. So I went to YouTube, Bing, google, different blogging sites. I wanted to know everything I needed to know before I decided to start. (even though I have started. I haven't stopped researching). I have found that to be successful you have to do a lot of research. You also have to be passionate about what it is that you are doing. 

I have put myself onto a path towards a better future. A better future is of course the long term goal. 

As you can tell I need more experience. It will come with a little bit of time and understanding. 

I may be in the very beginning but I see a bright future. I am having a hard time deciding what to write about I either have too many ideas at the time or I have a hard time coming up with one. This is a problem that only I can fix, and I intend to. 

On my part I promise to get myself into a mindset specifically for (you) my readers. I do however have one simple question for you. what do you what to read about? I would like everyone to think it over and come up with an answer to this question. I then want you to write it in the comments section. Along with any questions you have for me. 

                          Image by: http://plbrown.blogspot.com/2014/10/the-comment-surprise.html

I will continue to put out new content every Tuesday and Friday! I look forward to growing as a blogger with everyone's feedback. 

thank you all for taking the time out of your day to read this. 

As always Be well, Be happy, Enjoy life! -kandis world

      don't forget to share with your family and friends!

I do not own rights to the images used. credit posted under images. thank you.

first time parenting tips.

First time parenting tips

Being a first time parent can be many things... Its wonderful, and amazing, but it can also be scary and nerve racking.  There are many things to worry about, and many things that we worry about without the need for worry.

I myself am a first time parent to a 1 year old daughter. In the beginning I would worry non-stop. constantly checking on the new little life I was now responsible for. I would worry if she was warm enough, or cool enough. if she needed held, or left alone. when she should have a bottle, if it was too warm or too cold. I would worry constantly. At the same time I would worry about my worrying. this was something that all first time parents do. 

I had to learn to worry less and to just pay attention to her. 

we all worry, its what makes us human. it is ok to worry. just don't over stress yourself. 

Babies are easier than we first think as new parents. They let us know when they need something. Granted they cant use words so they cry. At this point its a guessing game, but there are only a few things that a new baby needs. 

• The baby is hungry and needs fed.
• The baby needs changed. 
• The baby needs attention.

These are typically the things that a new born will need when they start crying.

As your little one grows older there will be other things they will cry for. 

• Teething pains
• Irritation(babies are like adults in the sense that if something isn't working the way they want it to they get angry).

Babies and young children cant speak for themselves, so we as parents tend to over think everything.

Relax. 

it is important to give your mind time to relax. things that helps are,

• Taking a hot bath. 
• Read a book. 
• Meditate.
• Listen to music. 
• Play a game.

I know what you are thinking... How does listening to music or playing a video game help relax the mind? 

When I say relax I don't mean you have to completely quiet you mind. I mean you should take your mind off of the stress and constant worry. Stress is not good for the body or for the mind. 

Don't worry mom and dad you are doing a great job with your little one. 

take a deep breath, exhale, and calm your mind. 

Your child will let you know when and if they need something. 

Be well, Be happy, and Enjoy life. 

It only gets better from here. 

                                 -Kandi

Introduction

Hello, and welcome to kandi's world.
 here I will write about a verity of things from everyday life to giving my opinion on topics.

a little about me. I am a stay at home mom to a toddler she is my everything. I am married to a wonderful man. I enjoy many things (as most do). I love to play video games though I am  not the  greatest or up to date on games. I enjoy the outdoors. when the weather permits my family and I enjoy walking through the woods, camping, fishing, and other outdoor activities. I love music of many varieties, to me music is a way of expression.i am a spiritual person.  this is just a little bit about me. if you have questions feel free to leave me a comment and I will reply as soon as possible.
  on the topic of comments please be considerate of me and of others.  comments, questions, and feedback are all greatly appreciated.
 be well, be happy, enjoy life. -kandi